32. How Perception Shapes Leadership, Dentistry, and Every Awkward Team Meeting

This might be the most philosophical episode we’ve ever done—but stay with us.

In Episode 32, we’re diving into a wild little internet clip that blew our minds and perfectly explains something we’ve both experienced as leaders, dentists, and just regular dudes trying to figure it all out: your reality isn’t always real.

From funny stories about patient delusions (and yes, a surprising amount of cat hair) to the mindset shift that can change your entire experience as a dentist, this episode explores how what you see is often what you’re looking for. And how shifting that lens can change everything—from toxic team culture to your own happiness.

🎧 Hit play now to hear:

• The internet clip that made us question everything (look up “That is Embarrassing” if you’re curious)
• Why your “truth” at work might be clouded by your mindset
• How we accidentally (but intentionally) create September
• The power of choosing your reality—even when your day sucks
• Plus, some hilarious patient stories and unexpected wisdom about Mountain Dew, hair loss, and cat ladies 🐱

If you’ve ever found yourself frustrated with your team, your schedule, or even your own reflection—it might be time to shift what you're looking for.

LINKS:

https://www.thedentistsshow.com

Episode Minute By Minute:

• 00:00 – Welcome to Episode 32 + cat lady definitions
• 03:00 – The “That is Embarrassing” clip + what your brain hears
• 05:00 – Perception vs. reality: the science behind how we process things
• 07:00 – Inter-office drama and how we create our own frustration
• 09:00 – Learning to reflect before reacting (and firing)
• 10:30 – We create what we look for—positivity or problems
• 13:00 – Why September is a myth (unless you believe it’s not)
• 15:30 – Patient delusions and dental misunderstandings 😂
• 18:00 – Leadership mindsets: curiosity vs. judgment
• 19:30 – Joy is a skill, not a default
• 21:00 – The secret to a happier team and better culture
• 22:00 – Gratitude, homeschooling daughters, and Tuesday podcast breaks
• 25:00 – Reframing patient experiences and building trust
• 27:00 – Final takeaway: See what you want to see. Choose joy.